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My story 3 years 3 months ago #2468

  • Daisy
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My date is February 23,2015 and I am scared to death. I know I will be ok but still worried. I'm 39 I have two kids one 20 and one 6. After my son I was told I couldn't have anymore but I wouldn't give up. 14 years later I got my daughter. I was young and dumb when I got pregnant with my son and things did not work out with his dad then I met someone 2 years later and we got married 15 years. Later I finally realized I could not change an addict and got courage to leave him. I'm scared I might meet someone and what if he wants kids and I will be broken.
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My story 3 years 3 months ago #2469

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It is good that you have already children.
Many women are depressed because they not even can't have children any more after the operation but they don't have children in general.
So i can say that you are lucky and god blessed you with two beautiful children.
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My story 3 years 3 months ago #2474

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hallo and welcome to the forum!
of course it is not good that such an awful operation is the reason for you being here...
i wish you good luck during the operation and adviseyou not to worry.
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My story 3 years 3 months ago #2476

I don't know for what you are worrying more for the fact that you can meet someone who will be willing to have a child or for your hysterectomy... you have two children already and it is a big plus. You are 39 already and in this age it is not easy to conceive even without hysterectomy. I think even if you meet somebody there will be no questions and problems with children. So, don't worry.
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My story 3 years 3 months ago #2480

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there can be different situations and maybe your future partner will be willing to have a children event in case when he will be older than you. But you both should understand that it is rather hard for women over 40 to get pregnant and I think anyway you will be forced to use some methods of reproductive medicine and here your hysterectomy will not play a big role.
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My story 3 years 3 months ago #2485

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oh, thank you girls for you help and support...it seems for me that i began to calm down...
You are right about conceiving naturaly in my age...so yes...it is not a problem...
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